Idiom
hit a nerve
To say or do something that causes a strong, often negative, emotional reaction because it touches on a sensitive or painful issue.
Meanings
To provoke an immediate and strong emotional reaction, often negative or painful, by mentioning a sensitive subject.
Definition
When someone "hits the nerve," they have accidentally or intentionally addressed a topic that is particularly sensitive, upsetting, or painful for another person. This phrase implies that the comment or action has struck a deep emotional chord, similar to how touching an exposed nerve causes immediate discomfort. It's often used when an unexpected remark causes a significant emotional response.
Examples
- The journalist's question about his past failures clearly hit a nerve during the press conference.
- When she brought up their recent financial struggles, it really hit a nerve with her husband, who became visibly upset.
- I didn't mean to hit a nerve, but my casual comment about his job search seemed to upset him deeply.
- His remark about the team's lack of motivation hit a nerve among the players, who felt unfairly criticized.
- Sometimes, a simple observation can hit a nerve if it touches on someone's deepest insecurities.
Common mistake
A common mistake is to use "hit the nerve" to mean simply annoying someone, rather than specifically addressing a deeply sensitive or painful emotional topic for them.
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