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Idiom

rub up the wrong way

idiom (verb phrase) B2
/ˌrʌb ʌp ðə ˌrɔŋ ˈweɪ/

Meanings

idiom (verb phrase)

To irritate or annoy someone, especially because of one’s manner, tone, or behavior.

Visual cue for rub up the wrong way — meaning 1

Definition

To rub up the wrong way means to annoy or irritate someone, often because of your manner or what you say.

If someone or something rubs you up the wrong way, it makes you feel annoyed or irritated. This often happens because a person’s attitude, tone, or behavior feels disrespectful or unfriendly. It can also be used for a comment or habit that repeatedly bothers someone.

Examples

  • His sarcastic comments really rub up the wrong way.
  • The way she interrupts people can rub up the wrong way.
  • That customer’s attitude rubbed me up the wrong way.
  • Some of his jokes rub up the wrong way, even when he means well.